Give Zero Fucks!
Q. I still feel insecure and want the life, I just need to figure out how not to care as much. How did you become a savage at not caring about the backlash of being a sugarbaby?
A. Easy. When it comes to my life, my opinion matters most. I’ve always said that if someone isn’t paying my bills and giving me what I want, I don’t give a fuck about them. That will always be true. It’s crazy that people still hold themselves back from saying and doing what they want because they care that others won’t approve. Fortunately, I didn’t grow up in a religious household and I don’t have a large circle of family or friends to hide things from. Even if I did I still wouldn’t give a fuck because I’m vain. When you present a sanitized version of yourself all the time it’s harder to be wild or rude because you don’t want to offend people or make them think something is wrong with you. People want to look normal and not giving a damn opens us to judgement; most people can’t handle that.
The same people who would look down on you wouldn’t help you if you needed it yet you’re supposed to feel guilty for not seeing a man who would? Fuck that, get paid. Not caring is as simple as thinking of yourself first. Be selfish. I know it sounds easier said than done but when you remember you can only rely on yourself for happiness, you’ll stop caring.