Ask Sugar!

Q. My sugardaddy likes kissing and I don’t but I do it here and there to get by. He’s asking me why I don’t like kissing. How can I loosen up more with him because at times I can be uptight?

A. Some girls mind, others don’t. I don’t like kissing either but I’ll do a quick peck on the cheek or lips if he insists. If you just can’t stomach it then be firm in a nice, non offensive way about not being a kisser. A lot of men are gross and have bad teeth or breath. Or more likely you just don’t want to be seen kissing an older man in public. I sure don’t. I want to have a good time when I’m out with my guy and making out isn’t part of that. It’s bad enough to get the judgemental stares but kissing just adds further embarrassment for many women. 

Not wanting to kiss doesn’t mean you're not into him; it’s just not important to everybody. It shouldn’t be a deal breaker for him and if it is, get one last payment out of him and move on. This applies to all forms of intimacy.